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I’ve written various posts related to how important it is to write without judgement… to let ideas flow out as much as one can, knowing that their quality will usually vary unpredictably. And to, for the moment, take the ideas as they come, without judgement.

But today I write about the importance of being picky… very picky.

Sometimes I write something and I think it’s pretty good… but, if I’m honest with myself, I know it can be – it needs to be – a lot better. The problem with this is twofold: I don’t know how to make it better (yet) and it’s going to take work – more work… when I’ve already done a lot of work on this song and feel like whining… ‘Isn’t this enough?… Haven’t I done enough already to make the song really good?’

Well… if I’m straight with myself, the answer is… apparently not. This is the time to get very picky and meticulous. There’s a difference between ‘good’ and ‘the best I can do for this song’. And sometimes there is what feels like a chasm in between. It can mean wholesale rewriting, while trying to keep what’s already good. A daunting task.

So, if I have that nagging feeling that the song’s only OK, that there’s a better version of it somewhere inside me – or wherever this stuff comes from – I keep working on it, even if I can make the case that it’s ’done’.

Sometimes this can mean rewriting the whole lyric, for example. Or drastically reworking the melody. But in the moment I try not to think of it that dramatically. I try to just chip away, line by line (or note by note, chord by chord) and be willing to follow along when things start to move forward creatively (which usually happens eventually, if the basic idea is good). As often as not something new starts to emerge; maybe a better version of what I had… maybe something quite different

The key elements: staying open, within reason, to that inner voice that tells me the song isn’t yet everything it should be (I say ‘within reason’ because since nothing of mine ever seems as good as it could be or should be, I could be working on one song forever) and being willing to keep chipping away at it, making it better.

Sometimes I need some time away from the song before I do that, to get a fresh perspective – maybe just a walk, or a bath… or a month! But sometimes it’s just about not settling, not giving up or giving in; hanging in there and going around the next corner. Who knows what I’ll find there?

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8 Comments on “The Importance Of Being Picky… Very Picky”

  1. I agree with every word, punctuation mark and even the spaces between the words That’s why it sometimes takes me a lifetime to complete a song & then perform it. And there are lots of pretty good or wonderful songs that may never be heard by anybody but me.

  2. Yes – a perfect posting! I’m glad you added the “within reason” parenthetical, because there has to come a time when you’re done or else you’re stuck in the endless cycle of “working on it.”

  3. Thanks Tony, In my songwriting process each song is very different, just like people. Some require lots of time & patience to evolve into themselves. In this case being picky with this song is very important to to do. On the other hand some songs get hatched, and bingo… a tweak here & there and they are able to stand on their own two feet. Could they be better?… probably. Do I want to spend my time doing that as opposed to writing new songs??? Hmmm? For me, balance is a good goal.

  4. Why re-write any song once all the chords and lyrics fill the page? Because every song needs several re-writes!! Well said Tony. This past year I’ve been keeping every iteration of every song as separate files and it’s interesting to see how they evolve. Even then, though, I feel I could do better but maybe don’t push my creativity as far as you do Tony.

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